7 Reasons Why it Doesn’t Suck to Work for Someone Else

I used to totally be against working for someone else.

I’m almost 23 and the longest job I held was as a receptionist/file clerk at a doctor’s office for about a year and a half. The only reason why I kept it for so long was because it was decent pay and it helped fund my pursuit of becoming a professional soccer player career. Travel, hotels, training, food, and gas gets pretty expensive after a while.

I get bored easily if I do the same thing day after day. I get bored when there’s no opportunities to advance. I get bored when things are relatively constant. I like to always be learning something new and doing new things.

For the past 4 years, I’ve also been working on my family’s business. I personally never made any money from this. My payment was that I was able to live at home. There probably were A LOT of 80-hour weeks. A lot of sacrifices were made. A lot of experiences that I missed out on. A lot of friendships and relationships also crumbled because of it.

But I was totally fine with that. I was doing something that I was truly passionate about. You know what they ask, “if you didn’t get paid, would you still do your job?” Well in my instance, that quite literally was what was happening. I was meeting new people from around the world and we worked on a bunch of awesome projects. We were creating some beautiful stuff. I’ve learned priceless things about business that will benefit me for as long as I live.

Unfortunately, these things don’t mean a damn thing if you still live with your parents.

That’s why, a couple of months ago, I decided that I need to make some money by working for someone else. Apparently, the region I live in, is the second-worst region in the entire United States as far as recovering from the Recession goes. Only Detroit was worse. Go figure.

With that being said, the job market wasn’t exactly hot for a young person who didn’t have any “traditional” work experience or a degree.
The only job I was able to get was as a newspaper delivery person. The hours were great…..2:30-4:30 am, 7 days a week. Geeze, I wonder why I was able to get that job?

I lasted only 6 weeks there. The great thing about that job was that I had to give them a 30-day notice if I wanted to quit. Awesome! Thankfully, they found a replacement quickly and I quit about 2 weeks after I gave my notice. I learned some great life lessons but I was still unsuccessful in the money department.

After a couple of weeks of aimlessly filling out applications wishing and waiting for something to stick, an old friend of mine got me a job at a restaurant as a cook. Me….a cook? My repertoire of meals consists of bacon and eggs, cereal, and nachos. I wish I was joking. I’ve been there almost 6 weeks and lets just say, cooking is not for the faint of heart. Hours of dishes and bullshit chores take a toll on you.

But it could be worse.

My General Manager loves me and he says that I’m the future of that restaurant and that I have lots of potential.

That’s all what I was really looking for. Someone to give me an opportunity. Any opportunity. May not sound like much, but its great to get praise from complete strangers. Especially when you step way outside of your comfort zone and it pays off.

I also start a second job in exactly a week. This might actually turn out to be my career. I’ll be a teller for a large bank. My dream was never to be a banker, God no!

But they’ve given me an incredible opportunity. A life-changing opportunity.

My mom has been with the company for most of my life. Her managers helped me prepare for the interview and did all they could to help me. I’ve yet to meet them in person but it’s incredibly great when complete strangers want to genuinely help you. I think they’re more excited about me getting this position than I am!

This company will reimburse me for my tuition and books so it looks like I’ll be getting a Bachelor’s Degree in Finance after all. (I also used to strongly be against traditional higher education.) Grandma and grandma will definitely be happy to hear that. I’ll also get a 401k and health insurance. Might not sound like much, but entrepreneurs who work for themselves would kill for things like that!

Perhaps the biggest thing that I’m looking forward to is the fact that there are many opportunities to advance. Opportunities such as working for them somewhere in Europe! I was born in Germany but my family immigrated to the United States when I was a baby. I’ve always wondered what life would be like if I lived there and I promised myself that I would move there as soon as possible. Well, it looks like it’ll be possible sooner rather than later.

Judging by the title, you’re probably wondering where in the world the “7 Reasons Why it Doesn’t Suck to Work for Someone” are. Sorry about that. I thought you needed the background info to get the full effect. Here they are.

  1. You don’t have to come up with all the answers. As an entrepreneur, you are the boss, the secretary, the head of marketing; you’re everything. If there’s a problem, you have to fix it. If there’s a question, you have to answer it. Even if you don’t have the answer. As an employee, its nice to be told what to do. There must be a reason why they’re telling you to do it, right? Don’t take this for granted.
  2. You get to learn the systems of the company that you work for. Someone spent a lot of time, energy, and money figuring them out. Systems run the world. There is a system of travel, a system of learning, a system for growing food, etc. In growing your business, you don’t have to re-invent the wheel. Take what you can from the systems where you work at and tweak it to make it better to relate it to your business. Free education on how to create a business right there.
  3. Having a source of income outside of your business is a great way to alleviate stress and pressure for your business to succeed. As much as you think you know what you’re doing, you really don’t. As much as you think you can control and build your business for success, you can’t. Shit always happens. Businesses can quite literally close overnight. Natural disasters can mess up a good thing. Your competition can cream you if you aren’t careful. Appointments and contracts can dry up within days. Since you have a different source of income, you can leverage this against your risk of loss. Leverage is a really good thing to have.
  4. Making money, any money from anywhere, is great. You can use the money that you make from your job in your business to improve it. This source is better than getting a loan from friends or financial institutions.
  5. Having an outside source of income buys your business time to be successful. The notion of “if you build it, they will come” is bullshit. It takes lots of time to build trust, credibility, and a reputation. It could take months or even years. Or not at all.
  6. Cash flow is really what you need to grow any business. If you don’t have a constant cash flow, you’re screwed. Bills will be paid late and you’ll be charged late fees and get higher interest rates. If you can’t pay your employees (if you have any) on time, well guess what…you won’t have employees much longer. Some quarters will be better than others. Most businesses do not have a constant cash flow. I have a great friend in Michigan who told me that you basically save all that you can that you make in the summer to cover the downfall of business during the winter so you can survive to see the next summer. If you have outside cash, you can use this to cover any shortfalls in business that you might experience.
  7. If you’re really fortunate, some jobs will include benefits. Some are better than others. In my case. tuition and book reimbursement is an incredible benefit to me. Not only will this potentially advance my career with this company, having my degree will make me more appealing to any other potential employers. Getting my degree was something that I was eventually planning on doing anyways but basically getting it for free gives me more incentive to get it quicker.

To sum things up, not everything sucks about being employed by someone else. Just don’t sell out, get comfortable, and keep doing it for the rest of your life. Almost everyone has done this. They’ve given up on their hopes and dreams. They exist but they aren’t alive.

Get what you can out of the experience of being employed and use it to chase your dreams. Yes, it sucks to go to work to do things you might not necessarily enjoy, but you’re luckier than some to even have a job. It’s a privilege to be employed. Take advantage of it.



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2 responses to “7 Reasons Why it Doesn’t Suck to Work for Someone Else

  1. This is a great post – it’s so important not to overlook any opportunity as a life-changing moment. If and when I ever decide to work for someone else again, I won’t really have a resume to support “traditional” work and I don’t know how much this will hurt me or impress my future boss that I’m able to think outside the box and take chances. Best of luck!

    • Thanks!

      As far as not having a “traditional” resume, I think it really depends on the prospective employer. Some like it and others don’t.

      It was a little odd that I couldn’t even get an interview with places such as Panera Bread and a couple grocery stores. I also had 3 interviews at Chipotle before I wasn’t hired there whereas everything went really quickly with the bank. Not knocking down those other places but I thought it would be easier to get hired at one of those compared to a bank. Just another assumption that isn’t true I guess.

      The bank absolutely loved my entrepreneurial background and I think they were impressed with the fact that I dropped out of school to pursue my dream of playing professional soccer. That was also partially the reason why I got hired at the restaurant.

      A resume basically just gets you an interview. While that’s crucial, I feel like your interview and your reasoning behind a “non-traditional” path is much more important in getting a position.

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